Do we give the ring-bearer the real rings?
Apr 06, 2009 02:57 PM Back
By Church of Ancient Ways
This is a very popular question. Many will tell you to let the best man hold them and others will tell you to just tie them down tight and it will be fine. Both of these answers work, but let me ask you 2 more questions...
Is your ring-bearer old enough to know that he isn't being trusted with the real rings?
If not, then fake ones are IMO the way to go.
If he is, then I believe he's old enough to be trusted with them. It's just for a short walk, and if you know that his feelings could be hurt by not giving him the real rings, then you also know there would be a sense of pride in being be trusted to carry them.
Next question:
Are you ok with a child holding the rings? Many bride's don't even trust the fully grown bestman 100%. Walking down the aisle in the church is a lot different that out to the end of a dock.
Where is your ceremony?
My advice is never include anything that may make you nuts, and only you know what that it.
I would never tell anyone what to do, but what to think about when making their decisions is the best thing that LIW does for it's girls.
Happy Planning!
Is your ring-bearer old enough to know that he isn't being trusted with the real rings?
If not, then fake ones are IMO the way to go.
If he is, then I believe he's old enough to be trusted with them. It's just for a short walk, and if you know that his feelings could be hurt by not giving him the real rings, then you also know there would be a sense of pride in being be trusted to carry them.
Next question:
Are you ok with a child holding the rings? Many bride's don't even trust the fully grown bestman 100%. Walking down the aisle in the church is a lot different that out to the end of a dock.
Where is your ceremony?
My advice is never include anything that may make you nuts, and only you know what that it.
I would never tell anyone what to do, but what to think about when making their decisions is the best thing that LIW does for it's girls.
Happy Planning!
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